Wink! Flirty gesture or facial spasm?

Posted on Tuesday, October 07, 2008 4:44 PM PT

By Diane Mapes

Most people have come to expect a certain amount of wonkiness during an election year, but last week’s vice presidential debate offered something new: winkiness.

With a half dozen blinks of her left eye, Republican Sarah Palin raised eyebrows and rampant speculation, inspiring the launch of a new Web site — palinwink.com — and  prompting the British newspaper The Guardian to dub the seemingly flirtatious phenomenon, “Winkgate.”

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But what exactly is a wink and what does it signify?

[Watch the first wink of the debate by going to msnbc.com's Debate Analyzer and clicking on the question "How would you work to shrink the polarization in Washington?"]

While blinking may be necessary for healthy eyes, winking is generally a deliberate expression of personality and is a learned behavior, like snapping your fingers, rolling your tongue or raising one eyebrow, says Dr. Roy S. Rubinfeld, an ophthalmologist in the Washington, D.C. area and clinical correspondent for the American Academy of Ophthalmology.

“It’s normal for us to close our eyes, to blink; that’s a natural important element of eye health and is unconscious,” he says. “But winking is generally a conscious act, although there are medical reasons that cause people to wink or blink pathologically.”

For example, blepharospasm, which causes people to blink or wink in a spasmodic way, is one such condition. Hemifacial spasm, a neurological condition which causes one side of the face to contract, resulting in a pronounced wink which generally involves both the cheek and mouth, is another. Involuntary winks can also be caused by head injuries, particularly those involving the seventh cranial nerve — the nerve which allows you to close your eye. 

But most winks aren’t due to any type of medical condition, including Gov. Palin's, says Rubinfeld.

“I would think that winking is something she’s done since she was a kid,” he says. “It’s become part of her personality and her body language.”

Interpreting what message Palin was trying to send with that particular bit of body language, however, can be tricky, says David B. Givens, director of the Center for Nonverbal Studies and author of "Love Signals: A Practical Field Guide to the Body Language of Courtship."

Winking can be a flirtatious gesture, but it’s not always meant to be sexually suggestive, Givens explains. “Winking packs a lot of different meanings,” he says. “[It can be] something you do to build rapport. It’s a friendly gesture, like laughter. It’s mildly flirtatious, but you do it with anybody.”

At least in theory.

When President George W. Bush winked at the Queen during a 2007 visit to England in an attempt to cover a verbal gaffe (he’d accidentally suggested she was more than 200 years old), Her Majesty was not amused.

In addition to being a friendly come-on, winks can also imply a knowing deception, that “you don’t believe what you’re saying,” explains Givens. “One guy will promise another guy something at a meeting and then wink to a third guy. He’s saying he’s not going to follow through. He’s being disingenuous.”

That’s where winking can become a risky choice for a politician, especially when used in a high-profile event such as a national debate.

“Winking is probably something Sarah Palin has done throughout her teenage years and her adult life,” says Givens. “She’s used it in a flirtatious or rapport-building sense, to get people on her side. But ... to me, it gave [her words] a slightly deceptive ring, like she didn’t believe what she was saying.”

As ambiguous as a wink may be, other types of body language are generally a reliable barometer of a person’s true feelings, says Givens, offering us a window into a politician’s moods and emotions. Think of George H.W. Bush famously checking his watch during his 1992 debate with Bill Clinton and Ross Perot (and again during Laura Bush’s address at the 2008 Republican convention). Or Bill Clinton’s tightly-compressed lips during the Monica Lewinsky scandal.

When it comes to Palin, the governor of Alaska's overall body language and physical appearance are an attention-grabbing signal to men, Given feels.

“The big hair, the makeup, the dress, the smiles, the winks – it’s a message that says ‘Look at me, I’m attractive,” he says."She plays up the feminine signals to a degree that’s more noticeable than what you’d see in the average American businesswoman or politician such as Hillary Clinton or Martha Stewart.” 

Comments

Never trust a person that winks...it fortells of
tomfoolery and obfuscating serious things....also
of being insincere
I found it interesting that the article didn't suggest what I thought it meant. "You and I get it but Joe doesn't." "You and I are on the same side of this argument." It doesn't have to be sensual or deceptive.
a wink means I'm playing with u ...don't take me seriously.
It is an inappropriate gesture for someone running to be vice president of the USA.
Perhaps that's what has bothered me about Sarah Palin from the beginning - her body language.  She says she wants to be taken seriously as a woman, a politician, a potential VP, yet her body language screams, "Look at me, I'm your high school dream come true."
Did anyone stop to think maybe it was a gesture to her small children? You know - like Carol Burnett did when she tugged at her ear. It meant she was saying hello to her kids.
Judging by that picture, instead of wink, it looks like she has an uncontrollable twitch...
Most gestures of friendliness are best understood when done in safe circumstances and situations. A situation such as a political debate of official meeting makes some "friendliness gestures" inappropriate (i.e. winks, frowns, sucking of teetch etc). The winks were quite uncomfortable for me. I thought to myself, I don't know this woman and she's acting as though we have a one-on-one relationship. Therefore, the translation of her gestures was disingenuious.
She is not who I plan to vote for, however, I think she keeps getting a bad rap when she is only being friendly.  She should not be condemned because she keeps up her looks, but maybe applauded for being able to do so with everything she has to do.
"“Winking is probably something Sarah Palin has done throughout her teenage years and her adult life,” says Givens."

I spent most of that debate wondering if Palin was stuck in high school. I find her winking and snarkiness to be immature and unprofessional, and definitely unappealing in someone aiming at one of the two top offices in the nation.
OK, being the evil Gov. Palin winked, let's bring out all the documentation on how Hitler blinked, Attila the Hun blinked - wasn't Jeffrey Dahmer Wisconsin's Blinker King of 1979?
God help us all if Gov. Palin ever blows a kiss.
Seems this lady can't do anything without massive anal ysis.
Oh for craps sake. Can McCain and Palin do anything right when it comes to the media? This has got to be the most one sided, pathetic attempt to continue to shove OBAMA down the throats of America. What the heck is going on?

IF journalists are not aware, they are to report the news, and not incorporate their views or take sides. This whole election has become a joke. Shame on all of you. I think there is actually only a handful, and I mean maybe 3 or 4 who are not taking sides or trying to show who they are partial too. I can't wait for this three ring circus to be done.Journalists have become a former shell of what they once used to represent. Propoganda.
I think it is a "Freudian-Slip", such as the "winker" is asking the listeners to either give approval of an ambiguous answer, or to ask listeners to be forgiving if the answer is incorrect.
Winking can be taken as a form of flirting, in some cases, can be thought of as a form of sexual harassment.  I don't think it would be appropriate for anyone to walk into a job interview and highlight their strong points and expertise with a wink and facial gestures. I'm sure it would come over as cocky and "full of oneself".  In college, in our job interview course, they never once suggested to wink, wink, wink, smile, wink, roll eyes,and raise eyebrows.  That would be a sure fire way to make a bad impression and lose the job interview.  Sarah, I didn't think all of your winking and facial gestures were appropriate for this VP job interview (debate).  If I was the employer, you wouldn't have been asked back for another interview, let alone get the job-your papers would have been thrown away.    
BTW with regards to her hair, make up, clothes and comparing her to Hillary or Martha is obsurd. Hello, she dresses like every success woman dresses. She is attractive and very confident and I hardly think she is presenting herself in any other way like you suggest.

LOL big hair, are you serious? I haven't heard the term big hair since the 80's.

STOP SHOVING OBAMA DOWN OUR THROATS. ENOUGH IS ENOUGH ALREADY. You all must be wearing rose colored glasses if you think he is the epitomy of perfection. He is about to change things alright. Ever hear of socialism? I suggest you do some research and rethink your stance on the almighty perfect Obama and the direction he will be taking this country in. Besides do you serious believe everything he says, because if you do, you do not follow politics very well, OR YOU NOT AWARE THAT HE STUDIED LAW. Nuff said.NOr must you be aware of the current state the world is in either. WAKE UP.
This woman seems used to getting her way.She knows how to manipulate successfully.And,I'm sorry-but the cutesy talk and facial mannerisms-well they don't make those characteristics any less noticeable!
Palin is as phony as they come.  Anyone who believes what she says, come see me I have a cheap bridge to sell you.  It is so obvious she hasn't a clue what she is even talking about, I just want to turn off the tv, but she just won't go away!
She does it well,and it works.
In the case of Sarah Palin and the debate winks, I think she was struggling on many levels to seem confident and in control. In fact, she was making quite a few verbal and physical gestures made to seem like everything was just fine...I thought it was entertaining and lively and made me laugh and didn't do a thing to encourage my vote...I'm so sick of GW politics, and it just seems like more of the same. But it was a kick watching her!
She does it well, and it works.
After every wink, I vomited a little inside my mouth...
i think it was a big mistake to do that in debate it shows how some people would do any thing to get ahead. shame.. shame lowe class
It was really unprofessional behavior in her position.  It also would not have been acceptable pageant behavior during the important question sessions.
I found the winking to be a big turnoff...but then I am female!  She obviously is out of her league in experience, intellect and good judgement and compensates with trying to be cute.  She uses her feminine wiles as a tool to attract the male vote.  Sadly, it will probably work on some men.  For me though, I don't want to see the first woman V.P. be such a lightweight.  There are far too many qualified women who could represent us far better.  In fact, I believe the Women's Rights movement will be set back about a hundred years if Sarah Palin should somehow become V.P.  There are so many women who have worked hard to break the glass ceiling and a mental midget like Sarah can only do us harm!  What a crying shame that would be.
I think her winking was a completely arrogant gesture. Would you wink at a possible employer in a job interview?
He who winks his eyes does so to devise perverse things; Proverbs 16:30
I wonder what a liberal college professor David Givens, who was educated in one of the most exteme liberal areas of the country and is just below a "basketweaver" in terms of real job skills, would have to say about Obama's fist bump "non verbal communication".  Wait. I'll do it for him:  A fist bump could mean something simple as friendship, but I sense a more sinister thuggery gangster feel about the Obama's. They are inner city thugs and it could be drug related gang sign.

Seriously, dude. Get a real job, Mr. PhD.
This woman is an embarrassment to the career women of today. Sorry,I cannot believe that any of Hillary Clinton supporters would ever support her or any mother's of daughters!!!! This does not belong in politics!
Winking!? Are you kidding?
Does this woman want to be taken seriously as the Vice Presidential candidate for 2008, or is she trying to win the Miss USA:VP contest?
Just another useless piece of over analysis of behavior about the lefts lest favorite politician. You guys need something better to do.
If Palin weren't a woman, she would be a dirty old man.
I think she was meant to appeal to the the Bubbas of the country, not the ladies. Wink, wink.
Come on, lets be real. I'm tired of all the speculation. She was out there selling the ticket and not the actual ideas(which seem to be few if any) of the campaign. What sells best? ...sex. Yes, sex sells. No matter how you puntificate it, the lady was lookin hot on stage and men like looking at hot women.

The question is, will "We the People" see past these high-jinks and figure out that this Palin/McCain ticket has Doomsday written all over it.

Obama/Biden 08
Proverbs 10:10 "He who winks the eye causes trouble, And a babbling fool will be ruined"...if I remember correctly, G.W. used to wink a lot and we found out what that was all about...too late..let's don't make the same mistake.



NO SUBSTANCE TO OFFER SO SHE WINKS. PHONY GESTURE BEFITTING HER TRUE CHARACTER. ANYONE VOTING FOR THIS MORON GETS WHAT THEY DESERVE.
Oh for god sake, leave her do her thing. If this is the worst she has to give, we are in bigger trouble then we realize.  The entire repubican party would not have allowed her if she was an idiot. So many people are so envious of others success all they have to do is pick on one who has succeeded.  Give it up. Not sure who I am voting for, but it won't be based on someone winking or not. FACTS and ABILITY PEOPLE> We are sinking here....
My thought about her wink takes me back to the wizzard of oz, where under nerve-e-ness, she tells her dog, I will just click my heels two times and we will be back in Kansas! I may of not have said this correctly, however, my point is "re-asure under "Fear".....
I thought she was trying to flirt with the voters. It takes a lot of gall to believe that something so shallow could get votes! She sent the message that she thought the American male is so stupid that all it would take is a flitatious act to get them "on her side". HELLO, PALIN, our men are not stupid and it will take a lot more than sex to put you in Washington DC. It will actually take having good ideas, and Presidental credibility. With the economic crisis, wars, and health care (just to name a few) issues America needs a calm person in the White House. Someone who wants to clean up our image around the world. Someone who wants regular people to know the American dream on a personal level. So, Palin, knock off the obvious practice of trying to flirt your way into the White House!!!
A wink is nothing more than the winker (probably deliberately)closing one eye briefly. Whatever meaning it has beyond that exists entirely in the mind of the person seeing the wink. What does Sarah Palin intend to convey with her winking? Well, someone will just have to ask her! Otherwise, you are just guessing. Look at all of the wildly different interpretations in the other comments. (BTW, I am not a Palin fan.)
Do you wonder what all her hard working coaches thought when she threw in some winks?  I assume those were adlibbed, and not part of the prepared response.  I believe they were thinking, "Say it ain't so, Sarah!"
She is really one of Dr. Evil's fembot. I was waiting for the machine gun nipples to sart firing at Biden.
Idiots: She was winking at her father who was in the audience and she had just mentioned him.
Let the women be herself and then vote for the best. Let the crooks be known by what they steal from the tax payer.
Palin winks because this is what gold ol

"con artists" do to build false rapport and

closeness. It is shallow just like the woman!

OBAMA 2008

May Palin go to hell!  It is an insult to all woman that she is even on the ticket. I would rather have my next door neighbor be the VP.
At this point most have made their decision. Is there ever a point in your life that things did not go as you planned? Should you be chastised for this for the rest of your life for this action?  Have you ever made a mistake in life or not completed an interview like you anticipated. Not all life is scripted. Get over it. There was nothing that was directed at anyone in particular.
Her every wink reminds me of Bush.
Amen to this article! Palin is definitely coming across as disingenous and trying to attract men and women by winking and acting too intimate - like she's our new bestfriend. It comes across to me as embarrassing, trying-too-hard behavior and extremely unprofessional in her line of work. Obama/Biden are the genuine article between the two choices.
Palin winks because this is what gold ol

"con artists" do to build false rapport and

closeness. It is shallow just like the woman!

OBAMA 2008

May Palin go to back to Alaska and face one of the dying polar bears that she sought to take off the endangered species list.  

 It is an insult to all woman that she is even on the ticket. I would rather have my next door neighbor be the VP. May John McCain go back to his cave!~
American People let us use some common sense. Senator McCain is 72 years old. He had medical problems before . Sarah Palin has to take over.  Can she wink  this nation out of the economical disaster we are in right now i ?  Give me break   Harold
I think what bothers me the most is that Sarah Palin is so full of herself that she actually "thinks" she is every mans wet dream!  Guess what Sarah, not "every man" is straight #1 (I would think with your husbands sex antics you would have known that) - AND - when it comes right down to it... you can put lipstick on a pig, but....
GIVE ME A BREAK...A WINK IS A WINK. I PICK MY NOSE SOMETIMES...WHAT DOES THAT MEAN?


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