'I've fallen asleep and I can't get up!'

Posted on Wednesday, May 07, 2008 2:13 PM PT

By Diane Mapes

You’re lying in bed, just starting to wake up, when you realize you can’t move. Your chest is heavy — like somebody’s sitting on it — and you’re overwhelmed with a feeling of dread.

Suddenly, out of the corner of your eye, you see something move. It’s a spider. No, two spiders. No three, four, a dozen or more. They’re big as walnuts and slowly crawling up the bed posts of your bed and onto the blankets, scuttling ever closer towards your paralyzed body.

Sound like a cross between “Fear Factor” and “The Twilight Zone?”

It’s not. It’s the sort of thing people with sleep paralysis have experienced for centuries. Back in the day, the vivid hallucinations that sometimes occur with this disorder were often attributed to supernatural forces.

According to Dr. Carol Ash, medical director of the Sleep for Life Center in Hillsboro, New Jersey,  there is a powerful force at work, but it’s not otherworldly.  It’s called sleep.

“Sleep is a fascinating world, a complex set of neural controls,” she says. “When you go into REM sleep, you’ll develop skeletal muscle paralysis and that’s normal. We all do that.  If that weren’t the case, you’d get up and start acting out your dreams, physically going through the motions.”


Unfortunately, some people — about  5 percent of the population, including singer Sheryl Crow (and her mom) — get stuck between the gears either going in or coming out of REM sleep. Their muscles remain paralyzed while their mind is awake.

“You’ll be lying in bed and you can’t move, you can’t talk,” says Ash. “It’s a very scary experience.”

Especially when the spiders start showing up.

Ash says some people who suffer from sleep paralysis, narcolepsy or severe sleep debt will also experience hallucinations or waking dreams. These hallucinations can be subtle — think a bell ringing or someone knocking at the door or calling your name. Or they can come straight out of a Stephen King novel.

“People will have vivid dream images projected on their brain in an awake state,” she says.  “They’ll not only be paralyzed, but they’ll be seeing images of their room on fire or somebody coming to get them. It’s a horrible place to be.”

Ash says some of her patients have told her about seeing spiders or snakes crawling across their blankets, intruders creeping up on them or beating them in their beds, or wild animals gnawing on their body parts. The people don’t feel pain, she says, just incredible fear.

These hallucinations — known as hypnagogic (pre-sleep) or hypnopompic (post-sleep) experiences — can  last from several seconds to several minutes and can be quite realistic. So much so that some researchers believe sleep paralysis and its accompanying visions may be responsible for bygone tales of witches and goblins and even more recent tales of alien abduction and ghostly sightings.

“Paranormal investigators may want to start asking people, ‘Have you ever been evaluated for a sleep disorder?’” says Ash about these strange bedside visitations. “Maybe the bumps in the night aren’t so much bumps in the night, but what our complex brains are really capable of doing.”

While not being able to move for a few seconds or a few minutes can be frightening, Ash says sleep paralysis is, in and of itself, benign – at least if the episodes are infrequent (and not misdiagnosed).

She advises people affected by the condition to focus on good sleep habits. Not getting enough sleep may trigger a latent genetic predisposition. Also try to reduce stress and recognize that the weird phenomenon may simply occur from time to time.

“If these are few and far between, it’s OK,” she says. “But if you’ve moved on to the ‘spiders are coming to get me stage,’ go see a sleep specialist so they can help you work through it.”

Comments

Actually, this happens to me, it used to happen on a more regular basis, and I learned to grunt, now I can actually yell help, also, I can see my sourroundings around me, I know that this is not something we are imaging because I have been attacked by someone before, and from the looks of this person, I know it was not of this world.  Yes, I did wake up with a huge scratch on my back.  If this happens, all you need is for someone to touch you, it brings you back, don't have them call your name, it does not work, you just need a human touch.  I would also liek to get some more info on this.  
It is great to see this discussion start:  people with narcolepsy and many more who are chronically sleep-deprived, keep the HH dreams secret!  We have been misjudged, mistrusted and misdiagnosed our whole lives, and really fear just being sent to a rubber room.

Sleep processes are being understood better at last, and the effects on mental and physical health are easy to mistake for depression, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia, personality disorders, Parkinsons, Alzheimers and dementia.

If a tubby, disoriented and sleepy person has staggered up to you talking to dream people before... then we have met!  Email "ducksinthewind" at yahoo if you would like more information on Narcolepsy.

This just makes my day.  Thank you, Diane Mapes.

This usually happens to me when I wake up in the morning and think "I'll just lay here a few more minutes" and I fall back to sleep. Then I "wake-up" and try to get up but can't move. I keep thinking I have to get up I've been laying here way too long. I hear my name being called telling me there leaving and I struggle to move. Eventually I am able to snap out of it. I realize no one had been talking to me either. It's both frightening and amusing.
Sleep paralysis is responsible for multiple culture's mythology of beings coming to them at night to terrorize them... from the sea hag in Japan, to Irish trolls, to little grey aliens in the western world.  
i've wondered for years if i was a nut case because of these dreams. in mine i hear someone in the house and i feel like i'm awake, i can hear everything around me and i then i start screaming for someone to wake me up and no one hears me. if i relax i feel that i am drifting into a state of death or that i will never wake up. i wonder if people in a coma feel like this? i have to try really hard to make myself wake up. and then of course i yell at my husband for not hearing me scream. i hate to say it but i am glad someone else does this.
Wow! I never knew about this but its happened to me. I felt like someone was pushing down on my chest and I couldn't move and I heard what I thought were my keys jingling and a person talking to me from near the top of my bed, but I couldn't see them because I couldn't move.  I was so scared and I started to scream. But then I realized I was only screaming in my head; not out loud.  It was awful. It only happend a few times- always the same way. I honestly thought a ghost or something was attacking me. I didn't feel like I was asleep at all. Good to know there's a scientific explanation.
I have experienced this periodically, for many years. I had no idea it was a medical condition. I have also heard people describe it happening to them in a much more severe way than I myself have experienced.
WOW!!! I'm so thankful I came across this story. I have suffered from this in my earlier years (not recently...not on wood), and knew that I was about to be possessed or something!! My question is....why does the mind have the aweful visions of something horrifying coming to get you when your in this stage. Where is Johnny Depp or George Clooney????
I've had this condition off and on since I was a child. Great to know there's a name for this. I thought it was just a case of creeping myself out.
I have had this for years.  When I told my doctor in 1977 he thought I was having seizures and I had all kinds of tests done including an EEG.  I thought I was the only person in the world who had this, so it's nice to know I have company!  I never got to the spider stage, so I am grateful for that!
You know, that explains a lot.  I've had quite a few times when I've woken up thinking for sure I heard my mom calling my name, clear as day.  It'll wake me out of a sound sleep.  She denies it.  It's not a nightmare (I love my mom), it's just the uncanny feeling like I'm being called.  I've had times too when I'll wake up in the middle of the night briefly and be unable to move for a few moments if I want to turn over or go to the bathroom.  I guess you can say I have it very mildly.
I've had this since I was a teenager. My mom had it too.  It is so terrifying, but once I learned what it was, it has helped me not to panic so much.  I try to calm down and move either my mouth or pinky.  It seems like it lasts forever, but probably only lasts about a minute. It only happens when I take naps during the day or sleep extra late in the morning.  It used to happen a lot, but not as much anymore.  My mom doesn't have it at all.  A sleep doc can prescribe meds to help with this.  I took them until I had kids and couldn't take them while pregnant.  I have this about five or six times a year now.
I had these as a teenager.  In my case they were not triggered by lack of sleep.  I remember the images were terrifying but at the same time my body was in an extremely relaxed state.  The images were in vivid color and always in the setting of where I was sleeping.  I would partially wake up from one occurrence only to go into subsequent occurrences.  They would keep on recurring until I forced myself to wake up completely.  The state was so physically relaxing that I decided to force myself to remain in it no matter the mental fear.  Eventually in some way I was able to control the images to the point where they were no longer terrifying.  After learning this control the occurrences reduced in frequency until I stopped having them altogether.
So thats what its called . I have never seen spiders but I have had theese type of episodes and yes, they are very frightenning.Once, I was asleep face down and sideways when I awoke and realized i couldnt move, so I had to lay there in the face down position . I had to try super hard to callout to my husband but nothing came out! Finally I tried again and summoned up all the strenght i could , and my husband was able to hear me .Later he says it sounded like a whisper, but he nudged me and shook me and i was able to snap out of it .I never knew it happened to other people .Thankk god it doesnt happen all the time !
I have suffered from this condition most of my life.  It is a very scary thing because it always involves violence, danger, aliens, or evil spirits from the other side. But for me it also includes pain.  There was a time when it would include wild dogs/animals who were attacking me and I could feel EVERY SINGLE BIT of it. Sometimes I would stop breathing as the episode started. More often than not I know from the start that I am having an "episode" and try to keep my wits about it.

I learned a few things over the years in dealing with this. I have mastered the ability to focus on my big toe (yes, this sounds funny) and can wiggle it.  Once I can do this the rest of my body will wake up.  I also rationalize i.e. if a home invasion is REALLY happening, my dogs would be barking up a storm so then I either focus on that big toe or wait it out knowing it will end soon. I will also continue to go back into the episode after getting out of the first one so the best thing to do would be sit up in bed for a bit to fully come out of it.

For me it seems to be chemically (brain) induced. It happened way more often when I was on certain anti-depressants (I couldn't tell you which because I can't think of the names) or if I took a nap during the day (that seems to almost always trigger a nightly episode).  So it seems to have to do with like seratonin levels.

Hope my two-cents helps anyone else who suffers from this or any researcher/doctor who studies it.
Wow after all this time I never knew what it was. I always called it Daymare's, because I never felt like I was asleep at the time. My fiance has witnessed me have a few of them. I thought I was just crazy! It always seems like every ounce of you weighs a ton, and something extremely bizzare is happening and you just can't move. I have seen such things as zombie looking people coming at me, to the feeling of some thing/one breaking in my house and not being able to respond. The craziest thing of all is that you know if you can just move...you will be ok, but you can't. And after the episode is over and I can move, I feel like my mind/body has let me down in the flight or fight mode. Like my mind and body just plain shut down.
I started experiencing this after chemotherapy last year.  It was disturbing....and no one believed me.  Thanks for the info.
I've experienced sleep paralysis from time to time since grade school. The experience of being paralyzed is frightening enough, but the hallucinations certainly make it worse (in my case, there is usually someone standing in my bedroom, in the doorway, at the end of my bed, etc.). Fortunately, knowing what is happening can have a tremendous effect on managing the situation. When I have an episode, I remind myself that it is sleep paralysis, that the hallucination is not real, and that if I can just fall back asleep, I will be able to wake up properly a moment later. Like the article said, I've had no ill side effects and usually have a really interesting story to tell that day.
I had this happen when I was in college. It was the weirdest thing EVER! I "dreamed" that I was watching my oldest (and favorite) brother being eaten by alligators, but I was conscious that was a dream, and was aware (in a clinical way) of the addreniline rush going through my body and what affect it was having on my heart, my skin, my breathing, all that. I've not experienced it since, but it definitely strange! I'm guessing it was caused by lack of sleep.
So thats what its called . I have never seen spiders but I have had theese type of episodes and yes, they are very frightenning.Once, I was asleep face down and sideways when I awoke and realized i couldnt move, so I had to lay there in the face down position . I had to try super hard to callout to my husband but nothing came out! Finally I tried again and summoned up all the strenght i could , and my husband was able to hear me .Later he says it sounded like a whisper, but he nudged me and shook me and i was able to snap out of it .I never knew it happened to other people .Thankk god it doesnt happen all the time !
have had these of and on, pre and post all of my life. often terrifying but that goes away and its all good again.
This has happened to me for years.  I remember seeing a tiger upside down on my bedroom ceiling one time as I was falling asleep .  The scariest thing is when I fall asleep on my stomach and start waking up and can't move.  It also makes me feel like I am suffocating.
All of the strange things that happen to me are not surprising.  My sister, niece, and daughter have all been prolific sleepwalkers.  Things are definitely not boring in my family when it comes to bedtime!
I've had this problem since I was a teen and it is so frightening.  A few years ago, on the recommendation of a friend who works in a sleep clinic, I stopped sleeping on my back and it stopped happening.  I'm 40 now, and it's been more than 5 years since I've had an incident.
i can not sleep at nighttime even if i take sleeping pill untill early morning hours i have tried getting up eary and not takeing a little nap during the day and i still can not fallasleep. ever one says i have my days and nights mixed up any suggestions debbie
I have had this happen to me several times. It is extremely frighting. You can't move or scream, it always seems (for me) like someone is in the room. No matter how hard I tried to move or talk to wake my husband I couldn't. Now when this happens I just tell myself I am okay and to go back to sleep. This works for me and the episodes seem to not come as often.  
I've had that happen before - you try to move, things are happening around you but you can't. It's freaky.
Had this happen to me two or three times in my life time (40 years).  Never had anything coming me, but is scary as H***.  

Glad to know there's a name for it.
Finally!  An explanation for what I have experienced in the past.  In my particular case, I not only cannot move, I cannot breathe!  I suppose it is a combination of sleep apnea and sleep paralysis--of course, it might be that being unable to breath is actually an "hallucination" of sorts.  

I have combatted it in multiple ways.  First, I now sleep on my side (not for sleep paralysis, but sleep apnea reasons). Second, I sometimes "psyche myself out," telling myself what I will do if this or that.

The way I have handled this in times past is nothing special.  I simply find a part of me that CAN move (usually my toes, say), begin moving them, then as the momentum builds, I finally "kick out of it."  I have learned to IMMEDIATELY turn over, for usually I am so sleepy that I will fall right back to sleep, and go through the same thing again.

Thank you so much for sharing this.  It's a relief to know that it is a known problem.
I have experienced this several times in my life. I want to wake up but can not. It is scary when you are captured in a zone that you can't get out of.
I have had episodes of sleep paralysis all my life.  They are terrifying and I never get "used" to them.  I always have the feeling of impending death.  When I snap out of the episode I need to get out of bed for a few minutes or I will go right back into the paralysis. I dread it.
Sleep paralysis is normal.  If humans were not 'immoblized' during sleep we would thrash around a lot.  Especially when we dream.  However, most people are not aware of it.  A few of us wake up before we can move.  I have it, my mother had it and my son and granddaughter have it.  We don't like it but it is fairly harmless.  It is just frightening to be aware and not be able to move.
Sounds rather scary.  Don't think that has happened to me, but I have gotten out of bed during a dream and run straight into a wall, because I was seeing a doorway.  Two black eyes and a bloody nose.  Worse than a nightmare!
wow.  i never realized what this was.  i have this. it's nearly always that there are people in our room coming to get me.  i can't open my eyes and wake up.  when i was a kid it was a snake in my room and i couldn't move.  who knew other people have this too?  it's very scary.  sometimes i make a noise and my husband wakes me up.  and because it was so vivid, he goes through the entire house.  by the time he comes back to bed i'm awake enough to realize that it was just a dream.  crazy.
This type of thing has been happening to me for years.  Sometimes I am able to make noise to try to get my wife to wake me up.  It is so uncomfortable that I have told her that she needs to do whatever it takes to wake me up when it is happenning.  As crazy as it sounds I have told her to slap me or push me out of bed if I will not wake up.  She's never experienced the true horror that I go through when this is happening so her attempts to wake me up are not as potent as I would prefer.
I know this sounds strange, but it really is an uncomfortable and truly terrifing position to find yourself in.
I experienced this once when I was about 22.  I noticed that I could not move and that I was on what I perceived to be a giant hand because I felt very small in this hand that I thought was the hand of God. I still remember how I felt at not being able to move at all.  It felt awful because I wanted to move and I could not. I then went back to sleep.
This used to happen to me more often than I cared for when I was little (5-11 y/o). There was always someone coming down the hall calling my name; coming to get me. I screamed and screamed, yelled for my parents but I couldn't open my mouth or make a noise. I can't remember which was more maddening, not being able to move, or not being able to scream.  Sometimes it was like looking at a transparency being placed over the waking world.   I always felt I was halfway between sleep and consciousness but no one would ever believe me when I told them what I experienced. It's been so very long since my last experience I had almost forgotten. I feel a little less crazy today. LOL
I have had narcolepsy for about 33 years, following being struck by a car.  Once I knew what triggered the attacks, I was able to better control it.  I haven't had a sleep attack in decades, but if my sleep pattern is thrown off (staying up too late), I experience the sleep paralysis.  I do not hallucinate, however; in fact, I'm very cognizant of my environment.  I can hear people talking to me, and can see what's going on.  It was really quite terrifying at first; but once I knew what it was, I was fine with it.
This happened to me a few weeks ago.  It was really scary!  I woke up and thought I could feel a cat walking on my bed next to me...only I don't own a cat.  So I tried to will myself awake.  But I couldn't move!  Then I felt all the feeling go out of my body.  I thought I had become paralyzed during my sleep.  I live alone so I panicked and thought nobody would find me.  I focused really hard on pulling myself and finally was able to.  It was such a strange experience!!!  One I hope I don't have again...
My younger brother and I both experience sleep paralysis when we are over tired. The only thing I have found to stop this from occuring so I can finally get some rest is to sleep on my stomach.
I get this all the time. It's no big deal for me. I've had it long enough that when it happens, I know what's going on and I try not to worry about it. I've never had crazy hallucinations... but sometimes I do have this sense that someone is in the house. Then I remind myself that there is no one in the house...  I'm just being paranoid because I'm in sleep paralysis. The most logical thing to do of course is to just close your eyes and go back to sleep... but of course you're usually too freaked out to do that. I've actually gotten to the point where I can snap myself out of it and wake up. I just have to focus every ounce of energy I have into making a small movement of my neck / head. It's really hard to do... but most of the time I can actually do it. Even a tiny movement of a few millimeters is enough to snap myself out of it. I wake up. Look around. Feel a sense of relief. And then generally roll over and fall back asleep and then wake up normally a little later.
This happens to me on pretty much a nightly basis. I will be lying in my bed and partly awake, but still groggy. I feel as if there is an intruder creeping up on me and I try to awaken my husband but I am unable to move or speak. So I begin to try screaming! There have been some nights when I try so hard to scream that I actually so scream and scare the pants off of everyone in the family. What can help this to stop happening so often? I get plenty of sleep, in fact I fall asleep many times during the day. This will happen during the day if I fall asleep on the couch.  
Besides sleep paralysis, there are many other symptoms of sleep disorders like narcolepsy with serious consequences. For instance, automatic behavior can be dangerous for both the narcoleptic and those around him/her. Automatic behavior combined with hypnogogic hallucinations has the potential to result in injury to the narcoleptic or others, depending on the activity the narcoleptic is automatically acting out.
I suffer from hypersomnia. It so frustrating because without taking provigil it is near impossible to stay awake unless I'm constantly moving. Since I do not have insurance and there is no generic form of the medication I battle the uncontrollable urges to fall asleep.  People don't understand how debilitating these sleep disorders can be and how they can affect your life, work and relationships.
that is just creepy!! i think I would have a heart attack if that happened to me
Wow--I've experienced some of this for years!
The whole sensation of not being able to move or talk, knowing I was asleep or trying to be awake and not being able to move or talk is absolutely terrifying. I've gone through several cylces of thinking, "whew, now I'm awake--nope still can't move". I cannot adequately explain how disturbing this is. It's been happening to me for about 20 years. I thought it was all mental-had no idea it can be soley physiological. Good to know!
Strange - I've had this happen to me before but never knew it was a known condition. It is very frightning to be awake but unable to move. The only thing I can control is my own breathing, so I make myself breath really fast to try to wake myself up. Works sometimes.
This happens to me. A lot, actually. They used to terrify me, but I sort of trained myself to become more aware during them, and to try to 'enjoy' them. When one happens now, there's the initial terror (mine is almost always the feeling that there's an evil intruder present in the bedroom), followed by a few seconds where I get my bearings, remind myself where I am, tell myself there's nobody in the room, then lay still while my body un-paralyzes itself.

FWIW, these episodes--which happen about once every two weeks--last probably 15-20 seconds.
I used to get these.In mine- the bed would violently shake and something would start coming out from under the bed. You were awake,but you couldnt move or scream.It got to the point that I was afraid to go to sleep if I was alone.Thankfully I havent had this in a couple of years!!
I have terrible "vivid" nightmares every night and have found myself sleeping walking and making phone calls to family and even 911.
I've had these episodes all of my life- some nights are worse than others where most nights are easier to deal with. Why does this happen? What can I do to stop these terrible nigth visions?
deb
For a long time I've wondered what was happening to me when I had my first sleep paralysis. Im so happy to have found this because now i know i wans't dreaming, and now maybe my family will believe me. As I layed in bed, just waking, I saw a shadow on my ceiling and then felt a sudden hard thud on my chest. I couldn't move, I was afraid I tried screaming really hard but only sounded like a whine. My ears had pressure..the whole time it felt like someone was over me breathing on me and whispering with all kinds of voices surrounding me. Then it let me go, and I finally could breath. I closed my eyes with tears, then agian it came back and hit me on the chest with the same things happening. What causes this?


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