'I've fallen asleep and I can't get up!'

Posted on Wednesday, May 07, 2008 2:13 PM PT

By Diane Mapes

You’re lying in bed, just starting to wake up, when you realize you can’t move. Your chest is heavy — like somebody’s sitting on it — and you’re overwhelmed with a feeling of dread.

Suddenly, out of the corner of your eye, you see something move. It’s a spider. No, two spiders. No three, four, a dozen or more. They’re big as walnuts and slowly crawling up the bed posts of your bed and onto the blankets, scuttling ever closer towards your paralyzed body.

Sound like a cross between “Fear Factor” and “The Twilight Zone?”

It’s not. It’s the sort of thing people with sleep paralysis have experienced for centuries. Back in the day, the vivid hallucinations that sometimes occur with this disorder were often attributed to supernatural forces.

According to Dr. Carol Ash, medical director of the Sleep for Life Center in Hillsboro, New Jersey,  there is a powerful force at work, but it’s not otherworldly.  It’s called sleep.

“Sleep is a fascinating world, a complex set of neural controls,” she says. “When you go into REM sleep, you’ll develop skeletal muscle paralysis and that’s normal. We all do that.  If that weren’t the case, you’d get up and start acting out your dreams, physically going through the motions.”


Unfortunately, some people — about  5 percent of the population, including singer Sheryl Crow (and her mom) — get stuck between the gears either going in or coming out of REM sleep. Their muscles remain paralyzed while their mind is awake.

“You’ll be lying in bed and you can’t move, you can’t talk,” says Ash. “It’s a very scary experience.”

Especially when the spiders start showing up.

Ash says some people who suffer from sleep paralysis, narcolepsy or severe sleep debt will also experience hallucinations or waking dreams. These hallucinations can be subtle — think a bell ringing or someone knocking at the door or calling your name. Or they can come straight out of a Stephen King novel.

“People will have vivid dream images projected on their brain in an awake state,” she says.  “They’ll not only be paralyzed, but they’ll be seeing images of their room on fire or somebody coming to get them. It’s a horrible place to be.”

Ash says some of her patients have told her about seeing spiders or snakes crawling across their blankets, intruders creeping up on them or beating them in their beds, or wild animals gnawing on their body parts. The people don’t feel pain, she says, just incredible fear.

These hallucinations — known as hypnagogic (pre-sleep) or hypnopompic (post-sleep) experiences — can  last from several seconds to several minutes and can be quite realistic. So much so that some researchers believe sleep paralysis and its accompanying visions may be responsible for bygone tales of witches and goblins and even more recent tales of alien abduction and ghostly sightings.

“Paranormal investigators may want to start asking people, ‘Have you ever been evaluated for a sleep disorder?’” says Ash about these strange bedside visitations. “Maybe the bumps in the night aren’t so much bumps in the night, but what our complex brains are really capable of doing.”

While not being able to move for a few seconds or a few minutes can be frightening, Ash says sleep paralysis is, in and of itself, benign – at least if the episodes are infrequent (and not misdiagnosed).

She advises people affected by the condition to focus on good sleep habits. Not getting enough sleep may trigger a latent genetic predisposition. Also try to reduce stress and recognize that the weird phenomenon may simply occur from time to time.

“If these are few and far between, it’s OK,” she says. “But if you’ve moved on to the ‘spiders are coming to get me stage,’ go see a sleep specialist so they can help you work through it.”

Comments

I must say, I have experienced this for many years while growing up, my mother would call it,"Witch on your Back" one week it happen to me every night almost. I would awake at night and see a figure with a dark or blank like face in a hood walking toward me dress in a glowing white attire. This realy did scare me for years until I stop having this condition. It's no joke and can be very frighting, my last episode was about four years ago. I would pray at night this would not happen to me.
I quess it all depends on your state of mind (no pun intended). I find these moments enjoyable, while initially I had to deal with "the feeling of dread", I've always recognized them as "not reality", and appreciated the show. You would have to pay big bucks at the theatre or theme parks to see what I've seen, if it could even be reproduced. Maybe you have to have the predilection to succumb to the fear of an obviously outrageous situation? A weakness of mind? (not meant to offend, just descriptive term)
I've not had the spiders, snakes or other creatures in my "episodes" but I do think that I am pushing back the blanket and getting up - but then I realize I'm not so in my mind I go back and do it again...and again...and again until something finally clicks and I really wake up, move the blanket and get up. Very disturbing and very frustrating!
i went to vacations to mexico last year and when i was  trying to go to sleep one night i stared hearing foot steps in the streets. i got scare and i couldn't move. i was trying to cover my face but i felt like somebody was kind of hugging me really hard. what would this be
I've experienced this on and off for years and finally know what it is. Thankfully no spiders, though I do have odd dreams. I'm also fortunate in that I can typically tell when the paralysis is coming; at times I can fight it off, other times I simply have to let it run it's course.
My wife has been in bed with me when this occurs. She is wondering if she should move me? My eyes are open, and I'm trying to speak (moan).

Thanks,

Marc
To whom it may concern: I have had this happen to me. It is the weirdest thing I am awake but can't move a muscle and I am being pushed into the mattress barely able to breath and I have to force myself to jerk my body awake. It is scary and very real. It is comforting to know that other experince this same phenomenom. Thanks for this Janet Cirello
I have had sleep paralysis for years. It took 7 years for a proper diagnosis, and then I was started on imipramine by a neuroligist.  I rarely have it any more. To say, sleep paralysis is "Frightening" would be an understatement.
This is weird and I had many instances of this when I was a child.  I was paralyzed and I couldn't breathe and I thought each time this happened that I was going to die because nobody could hear me and I couldn't talk.  I remember being so frightened and waking my parents  afterwards but they told me to go back to bed.  I had these in college too, especially when I stayed up too late studying.  I don't get them much anymore...
I've had occasional bouts of sleep paralysis since I was in high school. The episodes usually occur when I am napping, as opposed to sleeping at night. As I am waking up, I realize I can hear everything going on around me, but I can't move or even open my eyes.  I feel as though I'm straining with all my muscles to become conscious.  Sometimes, when I'm finally fully awake, I feel exhausted, as though I've just been exercising.

Can't wait to see others comments.
I've had occasional bouts of sleep paralysis since I was in high school. The episodes usually occur when I am napping, as opposed to sleeping at night. As I am waking up, I realize I can hear everything going on around me, but I can't move or even open my eyes.  I feel as though I'm straining with all my muscles to become conscious.  Sometimes, when I'm finally fully awake, I feel exhausted, as though I've just been exercising.

Can't wait to see others comments.
I've never been diagnosed of this but I've had it happen. At first the fear kicks in when I can't breath. But I found that if I could focus my thoughts on a small body part (fingers or toes) and move it, I wake up from the trance.
This has been happening to me since I was a child.  I can ask to be woken up, and my wife knows what to do when she hears me say, "wake me up!"
This is actully a very good way to learn lucid dreaming. I've personaly had this happen to me a few time, wakeing up, not able to move. It was only after some research that I learned that if I could train myself to reconize it was happening, that I could then "control" what the dream was.

It's not easy, and frankly it's quite scary. I suggest anyone who sufferes from this look into lucid dreaming however.
Sleep paralysis is so terrifying to me that I do not sleep in a bed unless traveling and have no choice.  I think that it only happens when I am sleeping on my back so I have been sleeping in a recliner for years. I can sleep on my side and if I should move onto my back during sleep, I am not lying flat on my back.
Leave it to doctors and psychologists to make things up when they really don't have a clue. Sleep paralysis is caused by your soul consciousness being halfway in and halfway out of the body, stuck between the physical world and the astral world. It can be a terrifying experience and your natural instinct is to fight it with all your might, which causes your body to wake up. It happened to my quite frequently while growing up.

One day I stumbled across a book called Journeys Out of the Body which explained exactly what was happening. The next time it happened, instead of fighting it I relaxed, allowing myself to go with the falling sensation. Suddenly I heard a loud pop and felt something bumping against my back. It was the ceiling and I was floating above my bed looking down at my body. I thought of places I wished to go and soon I was flying through walls. It turns out that falling sensation is just you travelling without a body. Fear turned to excitement and wonder and just as quickly I was back in my tingling body.

It never happened again after that. I guess because I no longer feared it or death.
Thank you for this article on sleep paralysis on msnbc.com! Mine started when I was very young- for some reason it always happened when I was sleeping on my back, and I always had this terrifying falling experience. It was like I was falling through the air. No amount of trying to wake up would make it stop, so eventually I learned to relax my mind as much as possible until my mind fell asleep, too. It only occasionally happens to me now (I'm 27). When I tell people about it, people who have never heard of it say I must be astral projecting or having an out-of-body experience. To them I say, whatever it is, it is not a pleasant feeling and I'd love for it to just stop. I figured out at a young age what I thought was happening, which is that my body was "stuck" in sleep and my mind was wide awake.
I am really glad to hear so many people go through the same thing. I'm also glad I don't see spiders, and I feel badly for those who do!
I had this happen to me many years ago after an accident when I was taking vicodan.  It never happened again after I stopped taking the drug.
I have this sometimes. Maybe once every year. I am awake but can't get out of bed. Sometimes I will drift in and out of sleep and dream that I am getting up over and over but am never able to truly wake up. It doesn't sound to be but, it is very terrifying. It seems that it will never end.
I have the hypnogogic disorder now and have for years.  I have seen spiders, flying bugs and spots on the wall.  It is strange but after reading about it and doing research, I have come to accept it.
I have had this happen in the past, and thank God it was a few and far between thing.  It has only happened when I've been under a great deal of stress.  I didn't have visions of spiders or anything like that, it was just very frightening being awake and not being able to move.  I would definatley get help if this was an on going thing.  I'm glad you did this article.  I thought maybe I dreamt 'these episodes'.  Thanks for enightening me!
I usually experience sleep paralysis when I don't get enough sleep on a regular basis.  No matter how many times I've gone through it, every time I get sleep paralysis, my brain doesn't seem to realize (or remember) it, otherwise I'd be nonchalant whenever it happens.  It's always a terrifying moment.

My symptoms are pretty much like the ones described in the article.  I'm aware of my surroundings, but cannot move.  Sometimes I hear voices, as if my body was possessed.  My mind is racing, my heart seems to be pounding as I'm struggling to break free.  Even with my eyes open, I also experience the visual images.  After a few minutes, I usually wake up for real.  It was liking having a nightmare within a nightmare.

Whenever I have sleep paralysis, I'm having nightmares, never dreams, otherwise the experience would probably be a little more enjoyable.
I don't wish to appear humorless, but I think if your reporter Ms. Mapes had ever experienced a bout of sleeping paralysis she would not have chosen the lighthearted headline "I've fallen asleep and I can't get up!"  As a 48 year old man who began having these episodes a few years ago, I can guarantee you they are anything but humorous.  The feeling of being completely paralyzed, and the often violent hallucinations (being stabbed to death is a common one for me) that accompany it, can produce a fear so great one wonders whether one will even survive it.  Ms. Mapes also provided very little information about the subject in her article – for example, the fact that the disorder is extremely rare in people over the age of 40.  If one is going to write an article on a serious subject, at least respect it, and try to inform us a little.  “I’ve read MSNBC, and I can’t get smart!”
I 'suffer' from sleep paralysis from time to time.  Though it's not as frequent as when I was in my teens.  But it's been very scary, from visions of a person standing over me to me transforming into another person and being stabbed in bed.  It's something that people don't understand unless they go through it.
I've had a few of these episodes, one in class.  I couldn't move or talk.  I kept telling myself to wake up.  It can be a scary experience.
I hadn't heard of this before.  I have had experiences with fear paralysis.  I thought I was the only one to experience this. It's been a long time now.  When I was younger I had one or two spider episodes.  When I got older I had what I can only describe as demonic possesion episodes. Those were the worse. I was able to shorten and dissapate the episodes by saying ... or rather thinking (with all my might) ... in the name of Jesus. ... it worked, I was able to wake up completly and take control of my fear. (well mostly.)  It isn't any fun ... at all.  I could ask were they really demonic attempts at possesion.  I don't know. That's not provable one way or the other.  I do know it got rid of my fear.  I'll take what works.

I've experienced this horrific state when napping. I'm not able to move or cry out and I'm fearful that I won't be able to breathe. Thankfully, I've not had the visual hallucinations mentioned in this article.
This is a frightening state, but it happens to me only when sleeping during the day. Guess what? I haven't had a nap in years....
I have been plagued with sleep paralysis disorder (about once a month) for over twelve years. It IS terrifying, even though I have never hallucinated. The "events" always occur when I lay down in the afternoon to catch a catnap. I've noticed they seem to last longer when I struggle to overcome the paralysis. Because your mind is so lucid despite your inability to move or cry out for help, I have learned to recognize when I'm having another episode. Now, I simply council myself to "go back to sleep," and hopefully I will wake up normally the next time.

I suspect the reason I am prone to experience the events during an afternoon nap is because I feel a little guilty sleeping when I've so much I should be doing--starting supper, catching up on chores, etc. Perhaps the part of me that wants to get up and get busy is in conflict with the part of me that desperately needs some sleep.

I had never discussed the phenomenon outside my immediate family. Then two months ago, I happened to talk about the freakishly weird events during a larger family gathering. Imagine my astonishment when I learned my brother and sister have also been suffering from the disorder for years.

A genetic connection definitely sounds plausible to me.      
I used to have occassions of sleep paralysis (did not know for years later that there was a name for it) but after realizing that they only happened when I would take an afternoon nap and upon awaking I would fall back into sleep and tried to get awake after falling asleep the second time. But I never saw bugs, etc. but thought my husband was in the room-I saw him, thought I was talking to him and asking him to help get me up, felt he was pulling on me to get met up--all seemed as real as if it were! I felt like I was going to die-felt I couldn't get my breath and that my heart was going to stop. I fought between allowing myself to go back into a deep sleep and the fear of dying if I did. Finally I woke up and realized none of what I thought was real, wasn't. Since I stopped going back into that second "nap" after awaking from the first nap these episodes haven't happened.
I used to have this experience...a lot. Then I realized that it only happened when I laid down on my back with my face straight up. When I started sleeping on my side these episodes went and away and didn't come back. I did try laying down on my back years later and the paralysis came back the first time. So for me, it is related to the position.
how about when you fall asleep and dont wake up for ten, twelve hours or more? when i normally sleep 6 hours or less
Sounds like a promising lead for explaining alien abductions as a symptom of a sleep disorder.
I remember back in college, one night I opened my eyes because I heard a strange, growling sound in the room.  I laid perfectly still and heard it again.  Only mid-third snarl did I realize that I was in a state of sleep paralysis (as we know it to be called now) and was actually listening to my own snoring!
Been there, done this - and there must be a heritability factor because it's happened to my daughter as well. Very scary the first time it happens but once you realize what it is, and it won't last, it's easier to handle. Of course, I never had spiders or other weird apparitions at the same time to deal with.
I've had this for years, and it's not a paranormal phenomenon, it's a symptom of narcolepsy.  It also sucks!
wow, i really thought i was just losing my mind. im happy to know that im not really insane, i have been suffering from this as long as i can remember. i assumed i had some kind of neurological disorder, thanks for this article.
This used to happen to me a lot.  Not so much recently.  I'd wake up in the middle of the night and I would not be able to move or even open my eyes.  I would be completly awake and aware, just not able to move or open my eyes.  I eventually realised that if I focused on the tip of one of my fingers and I tried really hard to wiggle it that I could.  I would then shake my hand and then the rest of my arm and shake myself awake.  It was very scary but nothing ever became of it.  I never did have any hallucinations.
Wow....I am so relieved to see an article on this condition.  Even though I have not experienced hallucinations (and pray to God I don't!!), I have often experienced waking up and not being able to open my eyes nor move my legs or arms, nor scream out.  On a few occasions, I have heard a chain-like noise over my head, probably on the head-board and that would scare me to death.  At one point, this paralysis would happen so often, I would dread falling asleep. One way I could tell it would happen before going to sleep is when I start falling asleep, I would feel as if I am sinking down or floating down into my mattress.  I would then quickly shape myself awake to avoid falling asleep.  THANK YOU FOR ASSURING ME THAT THIS HAPPENS TO OTHER PEOPLE!!!!!!!
I have had sleep paralysis as far back as I can remember, as young as 5 years old. I was advised long ago that it is realated to post dramatic stress I exeperienced do to a bad childhood. My dreed is that something evil is after me. It usually last about 2 to 3 minutes and I break it by trying to move some part of my body, such as my toe.
My name is Josh and i live in Wisconsin. I have this! I thought it was just me and when I told my mom when it first happened ( I was about 9 or 10) I don't think she believed me. Then I told my wife ( I'm now 34 ) I don't think she believes me either. Thank you sooo much for this article! I would wake up and not be able to move and have the feeling of dread like I was going to die and I would be just begging in my head for someone to come and shake me to snap me out of it. I never saw anything other than what was there and it hasn't happened now for about eight years so I hope I grew out of it or something because it's very scary. The last few times it happened I was able to will myself to make one of my arms move ( jerk really) and snap myself out of that state. Good luck too all who have this and especialy the ones that get hallucinations ( that would really suck ).
Other people have this condition! I thought it was just me. Wow what a relief.
I have experienced this. Usually when I'm overtired. My experience does not include spiders or snakes, but is equally disconcerting. Usually I feel like I'm awake, but I can't lift my head off the pillow to get up, I'm unable to move. It seems like an eternity until I can actually "get up"
I have had sleep paralysis for almost 30 years. The first time I had sleep paralysis I was 17 and in the back seat of a car. To this day and I'm 45 I still remember the unbelieveable fear and terror I felt.

Over the years I have come with a little trick that has allowed me to break the hold of the sleep paralysis. I concentrate very hard on one part of my body and then try to move that body part. Sometimes this strategy can take a few minutes but eventually I am able to move and in most cases the bond of sleep paralysis is broken.

That being said it never gets any less terrifying it just becomes managable.

My Wife has been schooled to shake me if she sees signs of the sleep paralysis. On one occasion she heard me whispering the almost unaudiable words "Help Me".

For me personally I have never experienced the hallucinations which would make this affliction that much more terrifying.
Yes I have experienced this problem but thought it was a spiritual happening not a physical one, I haven't had an episode for years,but I do know for a fact that my mother had the same experience.
I used to have this disorder and it really was scary to go through. it started when I was about 12 years old and continued for a long long time. don't know what caused it not enough sleep or something. I don't have it but once in a while now. but glad to find out what causes it.I am now 69 years old.
Wow, and I thought I was one of only a few people who had ever had that experience.  I can call out for my wife to wake me when she is laying next to me, and evidently I am not making any sound.  It is a very unnerving experience.  I have found that it will normally happen when I am laying on my back only.
A couple of days ago, I became very tired all of a sudden but now with a little more excercise and improved diet, I'm alot better.  Speaking of hallucinations...  I have had the dream/hallucination (whatever you call it) of being abducted by aliens. It was so real that I literally woke up in a sweat the next morning.  Over the course of my life I have had some amazing yet truly bizarre experiences which I do not wish to repeat here.  However, I would just like to say to all of those people who I have made fun of in the past regarding the twilight zone, I am so sorry ;) Please forgive me.
I have had this happen a few times, and is terribly frightening! After the first time, during which I was convinced someone had broken into the house and was coming for me, I was able to realize what was happening and concentrate on waking up. I have a fear of spiders anyway, so I don't know how I would handle seeing them crawling towards me!
re: 'I've fallen asleep and I can't get up!'

I've experienced this for years.  I have learned that when it happens, if I just relax my body, I will awaken fully.  The worst aspect of it is that I cannot breathe until I awaken.  Thankfully, it doesn't happen often.
This has happened to me! Many times...I thought I was losing it or reacting to medication or lack of sleep.  My paralysis occurs pre-sleep as I am dozing off...I will immediately hear people whispering behind me and imagine that they are slowly walking through my front door to surround me...and I am positively paralyzed. My body feels like it is pinned down and there are heavy weights on my limbs...as though I was injected with a paralyzing agent. Thank god this is a condition and not just my brain going freaky on me!


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